"How To Compliment a Girl!"
This week I am going to teach you how to compliment a woman the proper way. Remember that girls love compliments. If you've read my book, you will know how there is a little girl inside every woman who wants to be loved. And this is why if you make a good compliment the right way, she is going to be very happy. Remember that attractive women are usually used to compliments. I can bet you money that a good-looking woman gets compliments on her looks wherever she goes. If she really is beautiful, she already knows it. What's more, she was born with her body, so if you're just complimenting on her perfect body, you're really complimenting the Creator, not her. So how can you be different than the rest of the guys? Well, there is only one thing you need to remember: Your compliments will have to be special. In every way.
1) Compliment On What’s REALLY Special About Her: You should always compliment on something unique like what she has done. Don't bother to compliment on her good looks because she was born with it. Compliment her on a funny joke she has made or a skirt she has made by herself. Or compliment her positive attributes such as her personality or honesty.
2) Be Detailed: Always be detailed and clear. Girls love details. By the way, if she is wearing socks that match with her top, its not by coincidence. Let her know you noticed.
3) Mean What You Say: Really look into her eyes when you compliment her. Also, never use false flattery. If you say something, then mean it. Or at least practice till you sound like you mean it. Trust me, after repeating something so many times, you will start to believe it. =)
4) Don't Overdo It: Your compliments will only be special if you compliment her every once in awhile. The less you compliment a woman, the more it will mean to her.
5) Only Compliment Her Because She Is Special Most guys compliment a girl because they want a date. Don't be like them. Compliment her because she is special, and because you want to. I personally like to compliment a girl and then leave. This always makes a girl warmer to me the next time I see her again. If you do this to someone you don't know, she will be flattered and try to find out who you are as you walk away! (Strike one!)
Monday, February 18, 2008
DATING FOREIGN WOMEN
Dating Foreign Women" Have you ever dated a foreign woman from another country? If not, let me tell you this: Dating foreign women is fun and sometimes even better than dating "local women". Why? Because:
1) The female population in many foreign countries far exceeds the local male population, which means the females are much more eager to look for a good mate from the Western world.
2) A lot of foreign women are very gorgeous-looking. (And exotic in a foreign way.)
3) They are much more traditional and not as materialistic/ spoiled as some women. And boy? can they cook! I will now give you a few golden tips for dealing with foreign women:
1) Know her culture! She will be flattered if you take the time to learn that fabulous culture she came from. This includes
a) Traditional Holidays b) Common Customs c) Geography d) Food (ALWAYS the best part!)
2) Teach her about your culture.
3) RESPECT her.
4) Be Patient
There are many ways to meet foreign. One is by meeting and talking to tourists/foreign students. When I was younger I had a part time job as a tourist guide on an university campus. That was the best summer ever! You should see if your town needs any volunteers to show exchange students around! Another way is to use dating services and agencies. And of course, the easiest way probably is to meet them online. However, note that in many countries, most women do not have (constant) exercise to the Internet.
1) The female population in many foreign countries far exceeds the local male population, which means the females are much more eager to look for a good mate from the Western world.
2) A lot of foreign women are very gorgeous-looking. (And exotic in a foreign way.)
3) They are much more traditional and not as materialistic/ spoiled as some women. And boy? can they cook! I will now give you a few golden tips for dealing with foreign women:
1) Know her culture! She will be flattered if you take the time to learn that fabulous culture she came from. This includes
a) Traditional Holidays b) Common Customs c) Geography d) Food (ALWAYS the best part!)
2) Teach her about your culture.
3) RESPECT her.
4) Be Patient
There are many ways to meet foreign. One is by meeting and talking to tourists/foreign students. When I was younger I had a part time job as a tourist guide on an university campus. That was the best summer ever! You should see if your town needs any volunteers to show exchange students around! Another way is to use dating services and agencies. And of course, the easiest way probably is to meet them online. However, note that in many countries, most women do not have (constant) exercise to the Internet.
3 BOMBSHELLS ABOUT DATING
Three Bombshells About Dating"
Bombshell #1: Dating Is A Skill Contrary to popular beliefs, seducing beautiful women is a skill you can learn. Most "players" out there get laid not because they are rich and handsome, but because they are skilled in what they do in their past time - picking up women. They are the people who have been rejected over and over before finally picking up the skills they need to be successful with women. The good news for you, my friend, is that these skills can be learned by anyone. This means anyone, regardless of his looks, wealth, and status, can become a master at picking up women once they have learned the right skills. Every skill needs to be learned. You had to learn how to walk, how to talk, how to read, how to use a computer and so on. These are all skills you had to learn because you needed them. And meeting woman is just another skill you should learn - the sooner the better.
Bombshell #2: Confidence Comes From Your Knowledge Most men who are shy around women are only shy because theydon't know what they are doing. Everybody has a few strongareas and a few weak ones. We're all confident in the areas we're best at and less confident in the areas we'renot so good at. If you're good at computer programming and I asked you towrite a simple program for me, you'd probably take the jobsince you know you can code well. Same if you're in the armyand I asked you to take a M16 apart and put it back together again. But what if I asked you to walk up to a beautiful woman and introduce yourself to her? You'd probably freak out because you'd feel small and insecure around such a beautiful Goddess. But what if you knew what you were doing? What if you knew exactly when to approach her, exactly what to say, and exactly how to seduce her on the spot? What if you knew all the little hot buttons you could push to make her hot and sweaty for you? Attracting women would then be extremely easy for you - becauseyou'd know precisely what you have to do to make a woman fall in love with you.
Bombshell #3: To Get Things You've Never Had Before, You Must First DO Things You've Never Done Before. Dating is EASY if you know how - but you must still put in somework. I can show you all the little secrets you can use to meet,attract and date beautiful women, but you must PUT THEM TO USE.You must be willing to change what you do habitually if you wantto become successful with women. After all, to get things you'venever had before, you must first do things you've never donebefore. Makes simple sense, doesn't it? Remember: if you justkeep on what you've been doing all these years, you will just keep on getting what you've got - NOTHING!
Bombshell #1: Dating Is A Skill Contrary to popular beliefs, seducing beautiful women is a skill you can learn. Most "players" out there get laid not because they are rich and handsome, but because they are skilled in what they do in their past time - picking up women. They are the people who have been rejected over and over before finally picking up the skills they need to be successful with women. The good news for you, my friend, is that these skills can be learned by anyone. This means anyone, regardless of his looks, wealth, and status, can become a master at picking up women once they have learned the right skills. Every skill needs to be learned. You had to learn how to walk, how to talk, how to read, how to use a computer and so on. These are all skills you had to learn because you needed them. And meeting woman is just another skill you should learn - the sooner the better.
Bombshell #2: Confidence Comes From Your Knowledge Most men who are shy around women are only shy because theydon't know what they are doing. Everybody has a few strongareas and a few weak ones. We're all confident in the areas we're best at and less confident in the areas we'renot so good at. If you're good at computer programming and I asked you towrite a simple program for me, you'd probably take the jobsince you know you can code well. Same if you're in the armyand I asked you to take a M16 apart and put it back together again. But what if I asked you to walk up to a beautiful woman and introduce yourself to her? You'd probably freak out because you'd feel small and insecure around such a beautiful Goddess. But what if you knew what you were doing? What if you knew exactly when to approach her, exactly what to say, and exactly how to seduce her on the spot? What if you knew all the little hot buttons you could push to make her hot and sweaty for you? Attracting women would then be extremely easy for you - becauseyou'd know precisely what you have to do to make a woman fall in love with you.
Bombshell #3: To Get Things You've Never Had Before, You Must First DO Things You've Never Done Before. Dating is EASY if you know how - but you must still put in somework. I can show you all the little secrets you can use to meet,attract and date beautiful women, but you must PUT THEM TO USE.You must be willing to change what you do habitually if you wantto become successful with women. After all, to get things you'venever had before, you must first do things you've never donebefore. Makes simple sense, doesn't it? Remember: if you justkeep on what you've been doing all these years, you will just keep on getting what you've got - NOTHING!
CONFIDENCE ARROUND WOMEN
What Confidence REALLY Is" Do you lack the confidence to approach beautiful women? Do you fear rejection? This time, I would just like to say a few things about confidence. Confidence is an attitude that allows people to have positive views of themselves and their situations. Confident people trust their own abilities and have a great sense of control in lives. People who are confident are confident because they are positive when interrupting their own performances. Their goals are usually very realistic, and even when they do not meet their expectations they will only see it as a small obstacle, but never a complete "failure." They dont believe that they need to be approved by anybody, and they are willing to take risks because they don't fear failure. In contrary, people with no confidence are always insecure about their own abilities. They tend to avoid any kind of risks because they are a failure, and they usually depend on the approval of others in order to feel good. They also expect negative outcomes in whatever they do, and even when they are mildly successful at something they usually see it as a failure because they are so negative about themselves. They also tend to take criticism from others far too seriously but never the compliments. Confidence is a big key in attracting women because men who are confident are much, much attractive to women than those who are not. This is why I have included a bonus report on how you can boost up your confidence level For a simple exercise, think of an actor on TV who seems to be extremely confident around women. Observe how he moves, how he talks, how he interact with the ladies, and how he deals with tough situations. Now imagine what you would do if you were him? How would you talk? How would you feel?
HOW TO KEEP A CONVERSATION GOING
"How To Keep A Conversation Going" I'm going to show you in the next few moments how tokeep a conversation going with a beautiful woman. In fact, whatI'm about to show you may enable you to never get "tongue-tied"in front of a hot woman again. If you've tried to approach women before, I am sure youknow that the most important thing about a pick up is actually NOT the "pick up line" itself, but what happens AFTER. How many times have you approached a woman, said a pick up line, and then paralyzed in horror when there was a dead silence? These "awkward moments" also happen ALL THE TIME during a bad conversation. Take a look at the following dialogue: ----------------------------------------------------------------
You: So do you like coming here?
Fine girl: Yes.
(Awkward silence)
You: Umm...So do you want a drink?
Fine girl: Sure.
(Awkward silence)
You: What kind of music do you like?
Fine girl: R & B You: Oh. Cool.
(Awkward silence) ----------------------------------------------------------------
These awkward silent moments during a conversation are what I call "dead-air beats". These beats are extremelydangerous. If they happen too often, you can say goodbye to the girl you're talking to. But don't worry, by the time you finish reading this email, you're going to be a PRO at keeping conversations going with beautiful women. Here are a few techniques you can use to keep a conversation flowing smoothly: -----------------------------------------------------------------
TECHNIQUE #1: Asking open questions
The first technique is to ask "open questions" instead of"closed questions". Closed-questions are questions that request a"yes" or "no" answer, such as a question beginning with "do". Open-ended questions are questions beginning with "who", "What", "why", "when", "where", and "how". Unlike closed-questions, an open-ended question make womentalk and go into more details. It also shows a woman you CAREabout what she thinks. And most important of all, it helps theconversation develope. If you ask a woman a closed-ended question such as "Do you like ice-cream?" you will simply get a "yes/no" answer. And guess what happens after? DEAD AIR. But if you ask her "What kind of ice cream do you like?",she will have to answer something like "Vanilla", which will giveyou something else to talk about. Here are some examples of open-ended questions: "What do you think about the movie?" "Who was your favorite actor?" "What do you like about the food?" With a little bit of practice, you will be able to have"never-ending conversations" with the women you meet.
TECHNIQUE #2: Active Listening Another good technique is to let the woman talk whileyou listen actively. It's MUCH easier to let a woman talk thanto do all the talking yourself. First of all, you won't have toworry as much about what you should talk about. Furthermore, most guys out there only know how to brag about themselves. So if you learn how to pay close attention to what the WOMAN, not yourself, you will do better than most guys already. But unlike what most shy guys think, active listening does NOT equal "just listening". You don't want to just sitthere and listen. You want to show you're actually interested inwhat the woman is saying by participating in the conversation. Here are some sample phrases you can use to show yourinterest: "Wow..." "How interesting" "Yes" "Go on" "Tell me more..." "I totally understand." "No way!" "What happened after?"
TECHNIQUE #3: Being Empathetic One last important technique is to be empathetic to women. By being empathetic, you're showing you UNDERSTAND how she is feeling. When a woman feels you understand her, a strong bond is created between you two. When you're talking to a girl, pay attention to whatshe is saying. Nod slowly in approval when you agree. NEVER criticize her. Stay away from comments thatbegins with "you should" and "you shouldn't". If a woman seems happy or proud, be happy and proudtoo. Show your agreement by reflecting her emotion in yourresponse. (Example: "That's cool!", "Great!") When she is sad, give her a hug and a shoulder tocry on. Become her emotional fountain, and she will never run out of things to say to you.
You: So do you like coming here?
Fine girl: Yes.
(Awkward silence)
You: Umm...So do you want a drink?
Fine girl: Sure.
(Awkward silence)
You: What kind of music do you like?
Fine girl: R & B You: Oh. Cool.
(Awkward silence) ----------------------------------------------------------------
These awkward silent moments during a conversation are what I call "dead-air beats". These beats are extremelydangerous. If they happen too often, you can say goodbye to the girl you're talking to. But don't worry, by the time you finish reading this email, you're going to be a PRO at keeping conversations going with beautiful women. Here are a few techniques you can use to keep a conversation flowing smoothly: -----------------------------------------------------------------
TECHNIQUE #1: Asking open questions
The first technique is to ask "open questions" instead of"closed questions". Closed-questions are questions that request a"yes" or "no" answer, such as a question beginning with "do". Open-ended questions are questions beginning with "who", "What", "why", "when", "where", and "how". Unlike closed-questions, an open-ended question make womentalk and go into more details. It also shows a woman you CAREabout what she thinks. And most important of all, it helps theconversation develope. If you ask a woman a closed-ended question such as "Do you like ice-cream?" you will simply get a "yes/no" answer. And guess what happens after? DEAD AIR. But if you ask her "What kind of ice cream do you like?",she will have to answer something like "Vanilla", which will giveyou something else to talk about. Here are some examples of open-ended questions: "What do you think about the movie?" "Who was your favorite actor?" "What do you like about the food?" With a little bit of practice, you will be able to have"never-ending conversations" with the women you meet.
TECHNIQUE #2: Active Listening Another good technique is to let the woman talk whileyou listen actively. It's MUCH easier to let a woman talk thanto do all the talking yourself. First of all, you won't have toworry as much about what you should talk about. Furthermore, most guys out there only know how to brag about themselves. So if you learn how to pay close attention to what the WOMAN, not yourself, you will do better than most guys already. But unlike what most shy guys think, active listening does NOT equal "just listening". You don't want to just sitthere and listen. You want to show you're actually interested inwhat the woman is saying by participating in the conversation. Here are some sample phrases you can use to show yourinterest: "Wow..." "How interesting" "Yes" "Go on" "Tell me more..." "I totally understand." "No way!" "What happened after?"
TECHNIQUE #3: Being Empathetic One last important technique is to be empathetic to women. By being empathetic, you're showing you UNDERSTAND how she is feeling. When a woman feels you understand her, a strong bond is created between you two. When you're talking to a girl, pay attention to whatshe is saying. Nod slowly in approval when you agree. NEVER criticize her. Stay away from comments thatbegins with "you should" and "you shouldn't". If a woman seems happy or proud, be happy and proudtoo. Show your agreement by reflecting her emotion in yourresponse. (Example: "That's cool!", "Great!") When she is sad, give her a hug and a shoulder tocry on. Become her emotional fountain, and she will never run out of things to say to you.
THE GOLDEN KEY TO ATTRACTING WOMEN
The Golden Key to Attracting Women" Today, I'm going to show you the GOLDEN KEY to creatingattraction with a woman... SEXUAL CHEMISTRY. Ultimately, SEXUAL CHEMISTRY is all that matters at thebeginning of every possible relationship. If you don't have it,you can stop thinking about a second or third date. It ain't going to happen. Let me show you why... You see...attraction is based on FEELINGS, not logic.Most guys make the mistake of trying to "convince" a girl tolike him by doing stupid things to "impress" her - such asbuying her dinner or reading her poetry. They think that bytelling her what a great guy he is, she will fall for himand it will be happily ever after. WRONG. Women care JACK about your guy logic. All they careabout is their FEELINGS...of how much they feel ATTRACTED to you when they're in your presence. Listen to what a woman said to me during an interviewlast Wednesday: -------------------------------------------------------------Interview with Stephanie (Age 21) I don't think I can go on a second date or sleep with a guy if the chemistry isn't there. It's not going to work...to me...chemistry is about the sexual tension between each other...it's all weird...like there's this whole subtlety going on.It's almost like...you say one thing, act another thing,but feel something else. It's almost like flirting I guess.Whenever a guy flirts with me and hits the right button, Ialmost always become instantly attracted to him. And if hereacts in a way that makes me feel good about myself when Iflirt back with him, then the attraction is going to keepbuilding up until I want him to make me complete.-------------------------------------------------------------
A bit confused? Here's a good analogy... You don't attract women by showing her your accomplishments or the size of your bank account. You attractwomen by MAKING HER HEART BEAT FASTER AND MAKING HER BODYTEMPERATURE RISE A COUPLE OF DEGREES. Basically...the golden key to attracting women is byBUILDING THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
Instead of trying to "impress" her by showing heryour writing or car or whatever, BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
Instead of trying to "be smooth" and "sweet-talk" her,BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY. Instead of trying to "get into her pants" on a firstdate, BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY. Instead of trying to "show her you love her", BUILDTHE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
Instead of trying to "prove" anything, BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
See... Unless you have got SEXUAL CHEMISTRY with women, shewill never, never be attracted to you, get it? She will justsee you as a "friend or like you because you are rich but not for love" or tell you "Sorry, I just don't feelthat way towards you."
A bit confused? Here's a good analogy... You don't attract women by showing her your accomplishments or the size of your bank account. You attractwomen by MAKING HER HEART BEAT FASTER AND MAKING HER BODYTEMPERATURE RISE A COUPLE OF DEGREES. Basically...the golden key to attracting women is byBUILDING THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
Instead of trying to "impress" her by showing heryour writing or car or whatever, BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
Instead of trying to "be smooth" and "sweet-talk" her,BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY. Instead of trying to "get into her pants" on a firstdate, BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY. Instead of trying to "show her you love her", BUILDTHE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
Instead of trying to "prove" anything, BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
See... Unless you have got SEXUAL CHEMISTRY with women, shewill never, never be attracted to you, get it? She will justsee you as a "friend or like you because you are rich but not for love" or tell you "Sorry, I just don't feelthat way towards you."
HOW TO MAKE A GIRL WET FOR YOU
"Teasing 101: How To Make Her WET For You"
Hi. A while ago I showed you some basic things on how to tease women. Today I am going to elaborate a bit and give you the full definition of teasing as well as some examples: The official definition of teasing is as follows:
1) playfully vexing (especially by ridicule)
2) arousing sexual desire without intending to satisfy it So in short, teasing means:
1) Making fun of a girl playfully
2) Arousing her and then pulling back To me, teasing basically means sending "mixed signals." Basically, you don't want to do anything that is direct. You want to keep her wondering if you like her or not with your words and body language. Here are some examples: Example #1: Instead of telling her you like her, you say "you really like me" in a teasing manner. If you say "I really likeyou", she may reject you on the spot because if it's direct and blatant. But if you say "You really like me" PLAYFULLY, then you can get away with it because you're just joking. You may also accuse her of hugging you or kissing you a lot. And then you give her a hug or kiss back. This will leave her wondering if you're really attracted to her or not. Women love MINDGAMES. They love to pick petals off a rose and say,” He loves me, he loves me not"
Example #2: You can make fun of something small about her (don't overdo it though). For example, say one of her earlobesis lower than the other PLAYFULLY. (Being PLAYFUL is the key) She will probably go like "No it's not!" Then you look into hereyes and say, "It's all right, you're still pretty."
Example #3: Give her a personal nickname or tease her about something that is special to both of you. Like if something funny or interesting happens while on a date, use it to your advantage. Example #4: Some women like to touch a guy while they talk. When a woman touches you on the leg, say in a serious tone, "May you stop touching my leg?" Then when she seems thrown off, say "Well, if you want to touch me, I would enjoy it even more if you would touch me a little bit closer..." Example #5: Let's say you're cuddling or making out with her, try to smell her neck, kiss her, etc but then SUDDENLY STOP. She's going to be all hot and bothered and ask you what's wrong, etc. She may even put her arms around you to try to get you back to it. After a few seconds, start makingout with her again...but more fiercely this time. This is a VERY good way to advance through her boundaries. Example #6: Be unpredictable. While sitting on a bench on a date, suddenly pull her up and then give her a hug. Then you say "I just wanted to hug you." If she asks you why, say "Cause I felt like it." playfully or "I wanted to see if you'd feel good to hug." If she asks you if you thinkshe's good, just say "Well, I think I need a second try first..."
Hi. A while ago I showed you some basic things on how to tease women. Today I am going to elaborate a bit and give you the full definition of teasing as well as some examples: The official definition of teasing is as follows:
1) playfully vexing (especially by ridicule)
2) arousing sexual desire without intending to satisfy it So in short, teasing means:
1) Making fun of a girl playfully
2) Arousing her and then pulling back To me, teasing basically means sending "mixed signals." Basically, you don't want to do anything that is direct. You want to keep her wondering if you like her or not with your words and body language. Here are some examples: Example #1: Instead of telling her you like her, you say "you really like me" in a teasing manner. If you say "I really likeyou", she may reject you on the spot because if it's direct and blatant. But if you say "You really like me" PLAYFULLY, then you can get away with it because you're just joking. You may also accuse her of hugging you or kissing you a lot. And then you give her a hug or kiss back. This will leave her wondering if you're really attracted to her or not. Women love MINDGAMES. They love to pick petals off a rose and say,” He loves me, he loves me not"
Example #2: You can make fun of something small about her (don't overdo it though). For example, say one of her earlobesis lower than the other PLAYFULLY. (Being PLAYFUL is the key) She will probably go like "No it's not!" Then you look into hereyes and say, "It's all right, you're still pretty."
Example #3: Give her a personal nickname or tease her about something that is special to both of you. Like if something funny or interesting happens while on a date, use it to your advantage. Example #4: Some women like to touch a guy while they talk. When a woman touches you on the leg, say in a serious tone, "May you stop touching my leg?" Then when she seems thrown off, say "Well, if you want to touch me, I would enjoy it even more if you would touch me a little bit closer..." Example #5: Let's say you're cuddling or making out with her, try to smell her neck, kiss her, etc but then SUDDENLY STOP. She's going to be all hot and bothered and ask you what's wrong, etc. She may even put her arms around you to try to get you back to it. After a few seconds, start makingout with her again...but more fiercely this time. This is a VERY good way to advance through her boundaries. Example #6: Be unpredictable. While sitting on a bench on a date, suddenly pull her up and then give her a hug. Then you say "I just wanted to hug you." If she asks you why, say "Cause I felt like it." playfully or "I wanted to see if you'd feel good to hug." If she asks you if you thinkshe's good, just say "Well, I think I need a second try first..."
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