Monday, February 18, 2008

HOW MUCH DO WOMEN RESPECT YOU AS A MAN

"How Much Do Women Respect You As A Man?"

1) Have you ever been "nice" to a woman that just wants to be "your friend"?
2) Do you have trouble saying "no" to attractive women - especially the ones you like? 3) Do you tend to become "nicer and nicer" to a girl over a period of time?
4) Has any woman ever stopped seeing you after a few dates?
5) Have you ever complimented a woman...only to have her walk away and show no interest...or even look annoyed?
6) Have you ever had an attractive woman coming to you to WHINE about the abuses she has to take from the JERK she is dating? If you've answered "yes" to any of these questions...thenI've got something to tell you: WOMEN DON'T RESPECT YOU... ...I am sorry, but it's true. This is EXCATLY why youaren't having success with women...because they don't respectyou as a man. (I know this sounds painful - but it's true.) And here's the bottom line: Women are ONLY attracted to guys they RESPECT. Don't believe me? You know...it's the same for guys too: We are only attracted to girls we respect. As men, wecan have sex with hot sluts...but we never STAY with thembecause we don't respect them at all. So...if a girl triesto have sex with us in order to seduce us because she thinks guys are just after sex, she's going to be in a nasty surprise.Sure...we may have sex with them or even fall for her in the short run...but over time, we're going to lose respect andeventually dump her because she's just "too easy". The same applies to dating women. We can shower themwith tons of love and care. We can buy them expensive giftsand drive them to work everyday. We can take care of themwhen they are depressed and give them a shoulder to cry on. We can give them all the "nice things" in life. But guess what? They are not going to become any more attracted to us. Just like men don't respect women that are too easy,women don't respect men that are too "nice". So how do we come to respect a member of the oppositesex? How do we get hot women to respect us? Well, according to psychologists, our respect of other people is usually based onour perception of the person's independence and self-reliance.For example, we're drawn towards leaders and other "powerful" people because they are strong and independent. The opposite is also true. The "clingier" a person is,the less respect we have for them. Would you want your girlfriend to call you 10 times a day...day after day...week after week...year after year? So...in a nutshell...here's the lesson for this week... HAVE SOME BACKBONE SO WOMEN CAN START GIVING YOU THERESPECT YOU DESERVE!!! I am serious. Start walking around with a SPINE...especially when you're around attractive women. Trust me, as soonas you stop letting women walk all over you, they're going torespect you and like you more. Here are some practical tips on how to GET A SPINE: 1) Learn To Say "No": Not in an angry way, but in a calm and almost "indifferent" manner. (Real men never get angry. Real men put women back into their places by saying "no" to them calmly. ) Examples: "No, dear. We're not going to that restaurant tonight." "No, I don't want to wait for you to call me 2 hours before the movie to see if you're going. If you can't come, tell me now so I can make other plans or go with someone else." 2) Don't Be Too Nice: If you're the type of guy that likesto "be nice" to women and buy them gifts and take them outto dinner, I want you to stop now. Stop letting them orderyou around. Stop volunteering to "do things for them". Everytime you fetch her bottle for her or give her a ride home,she's going to see you MORE as a wussy FRIEND instead of a potential LOVER, get it? 3) Be Prepared To Walk: If you aren't getting what you wantfrom a girl, there's no use hanging around. If you aren'thappy in a relationship, break out of it. Having thisattitude will give you A LOT of power. Once women know thatyou CAN and WILL walk out if necessary, they won't takeyou for granted anymore. 4) Plan Out Dates: This is actually the easiest way todemonstrate your leadership and independence. Have the wholedate planned out before you go. Stay in control and just giveher a good night out. Remember that people are drawn towardsthose that have a CLEAR sense of where they're going...so if you plan everything ahead...your date is going torespect you more. 5) Be Decisive: If a girl asks you whether you would liketo go for dinner or a play, don't say, "Whatever you like."Give a REAL answer. Every time you give the "let's dowhatever you like, darling" kind of answer, you're handingyour power over to HER. Sooner or later, she's going tostop respecting you as an equal partner. 6) Don't Care About What She Thinks Of You: Remember thatyour job is to ATTRACT her, not to PLEASE her. Don't let her know that you care what they think of you at all. Themoment a girl knows you rely on her opinion of you, she'sgoing to lose respect. Here's the bottom line: women areonly attracted to guys they respect, and guys that try toohard to please women lose their respect over time!
7) Learn The Dating Game: Women respect guys that KNOWWHAT THEY ARE DOING. Think about it...if you were a woman,would you go for a guy that stuttered and sounded not veryconfident...or a guy that knew EXCATLY how to approach you, WHAT to say to you...and HOW to say it? Remember that women are NATURALLY ATTRACTED to guys they RESPECT. This means POWERFUL, CONFIDENT, and INDEPENDENT guys that make them feel weak in their knees...

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