HOW TO KEEP A CONVERSATION GOING

"How To Keep A Conversation Going" I'm going to show you in the next few moments how tokeep a conversation going with a beautiful woman. In fact, whatI'm about to show you may enable you to never get "tongue-tied"in front of a hot woman again. If you've tried to approach women before, I am sure youknow that the most important thing about a pick up is actually NOT the "pick up line" itself, but what happens AFTER. How many times have you approached a woman, said a pick up line, and then paralyzed in horror when there was a dead silence? These "awkward moments" also happen ALL THE TIME during a bad conversation. Take a look at the following dialogue: ----------------------------------------------------------------
You: So do you like coming here?
Fine girl: Yes.
(Awkward silence)
You: Umm...So do you want a drink?
Fine girl: Sure.
(Awkward silence)
You: What kind of music do you like?
Fine girl: R & B You: Oh. Cool.
(Awkward silence) ----------------------------------------------------------------
These awkward silent moments during a conversation are what I call "dead-air beats". These beats are extremelydangerous. If they happen too often, you can say goodbye to the girl you're talking to. But don't worry, by the time you finish reading this email, you're going to be a PRO at keeping conversations going with beautiful women. Here are a few techniques you can use to keep a conversation flowing smoothly: -----------------------------------------------------------------
TECHNIQUE #1: Asking open questions
The first technique is to ask "open questions" instead of"closed questions". Closed-questions are questions that request a"yes" or "no" answer, such as a question beginning with "do". Open-ended questions are questions beginning with "who", "What", "why", "when", "where", and "how". Unlike closed-questions, an open-ended question make womentalk and go into more details. It also shows a woman you CAREabout what she thinks. And most important of all, it helps theconversation develope. If you ask a woman a closed-ended question such as "Do you like ice-cream?" you will simply get a "yes/no" answer. And guess what happens after? DEAD AIR. But if you ask her "What kind of ice cream do you like?",she will have to answer something like "Vanilla", which will giveyou something else to talk about. Here are some examples of open-ended questions: "What do you think about the movie?" "Who was your favorite actor?" "What do you like about the food?" With a little bit of practice, you will be able to have"never-ending conversations" with the women you meet.
TECHNIQUE #2: Active Listening Another good technique is to let the woman talk whileyou listen actively. It's MUCH easier to let a woman talk thanto do all the talking yourself. First of all, you won't have toworry as much about what you should talk about. Furthermore, most guys out there only know how to brag about themselves. So if you learn how to pay close attention to what the WOMAN, not yourself, you will do better than most guys already. But unlike what most shy guys think, active listening does NOT equal "just listening". You don't want to just sitthere and listen. You want to show you're actually interested inwhat the woman is saying by participating in the conversation. Here are some sample phrases you can use to show yourinterest: "Wow..." "How interesting" "Yes" "Go on" "Tell me more..." "I totally understand." "No way!" "What happened after?"
TECHNIQUE #3: Being Empathetic One last important technique is to be empathetic to women. By being empathetic, you're showing you UNDERSTAND how she is feeling. When a woman feels you understand her, a strong bond is created between you two. When you're talking to a girl, pay attention to whatshe is saying. Nod slowly in approval when you agree. NEVER criticize her. Stay away from comments thatbegins with "you should" and "you shouldn't". If a woman seems happy or proud, be happy and proudtoo. Show your agreement by reflecting her emotion in yourresponse. (Example: "That's cool!", "Great!") When she is sad, give her a hug and a shoulder tocry on. Become her emotional fountain, and she will never run out of things to say to you.