Monday, February 18, 2008

CONFIDENCE ARROUND WOMEN

What Confidence REALLY Is" Do you lack the confidence to approach beautiful women? Do you fear rejection? This time, I would just like to say a few things about confidence. Confidence is an attitude that allows people to have positive views of themselves and their situations. Confident people trust their own abilities and have a great sense of control in lives. People who are confident are confident because they are positive when interrupting their own performances. Their goals are usually very realistic, and even when they do not meet their expectations they will only see it as a small obstacle, but never a complete "failure." They dont believe that they need to be approved by anybody, and they are willing to take risks because they don't fear failure. In contrary, people with no confidence are always insecure about their own abilities. They tend to avoid any kind of risks because they are a failure, and they usually depend on the approval of others in order to feel good. They also expect negative outcomes in whatever they do, and even when they are mildly successful at something they usually see it as a failure because they are so negative about themselves. They also tend to take criticism from others far too seriously but never the compliments. Confidence is a big key in attracting women because men who are confident are much, much attractive to women than those who are not. This is why I have included a bonus report on how you can boost up your confidence level For a simple exercise, think of an actor on TV who seems to be extremely confident around women. Observe how he moves, how he talks, how he interact with the ladies, and how he deals with tough situations. Now imagine what you would do if you were him? How would you talk? How would you feel?

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